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12.02.04
Budget holiday time carefully
Dear Kathi,
I get overwhelmed every year around this time and always feel caught
between work, family and social obligations. What is the best way
to manage my crazy schedule and still maintain my sanity? I would
love to be able to enjoy the holidays this year and still handle ALL
of my commitments.
Lucille, Del Mar
Lucille,
An overloaded social schedule combined with the demands of entertaining,
gift shopping, decorating, and other holiday traditions can evoke
panic in even the most organized among us.
Banish preconceived ideas of what the holiday season should be like.
Admittedly, this can be a difficult task, but it can also be very
liberating. Think about your holiday traditions and try to separate
those you truly enjoy from those you feel you "have" to
do because you've always done so or you are expected by others to
do so.
Always think before committing to any responsibility or social event.
Ideally, make no snap decisions and give yourself time to reflect
on any proposed commitment or responsibility (say you have to check
your calendar first).
Decide what is the right level of social activity for you - from a
party every day to none at all - and plan accordingly. If you are
not a party person, don’t feel that you must attend every party
that you are invited to. If you love hosting parties during the holidays,
but feel overwhelmed, consider hosting potluck events where your friends
and family help contribute with the preparations.
Be very clear about what your priorities are in advance of the holidays.
Schedule time to combine obligatory activities with activities that
make you happy. December is a time to truly celebrate, not stress.
Take small moments every day to relax and nourish your soul.
Dear Kathi,
I have several events directly after work that I need to dress up
for. My work dress code is very conservative. What can I do to look
festive without bringing an entire second outfit to work for these
events?
Marcie, San Marcos
Marcie,
Going directly from the office to an evening function is a breeze
with the proper accessories. Apply more blush and a deeper lip color
to transition into evening activities.
Revamp your business pantsuit by taking off your blouse & buttoning
your jacket all the way up or switching into a little glittery top.
Accent this with a stylish necklace or a long string of pearls, patent
leather evening bag & high-heeled shoes.
Another option is to swap your slacks with a skirt, hose, high-heeled
party shoes and sparkly, festive earrings.
Have a fabulous festive holiday season!
Kathi is a professional organizer, image consultant and event planner
based in San Diego California.
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