Clearing clutter and feng shui
02.24.06
Dear
Kathi,
I
am really interested in clearing my clutter for better feng
shui in my home. Do you have any details about how this will
affect my space (so that I can answer my husband’s questions)
and also, what I should do to start?
Angel,
San Marcos
Angel,
This
is an interesting question. Many people ask about how to perform
feng shui with their space and clear clutter at the same time.
Let’s start with what clutter really is and how it affects
your living environment.
There
are basically four types of clutter which all affect the feng
shui (or energetics) of your space:
(1) Things you do not use or love,
(2) Untidy or disorganized items,
(3) Too many items in a small space, and
(4) Any unfinished project.
As
you can see, there is more to clutter than physical objects.
The last category, anything left unfinished, is the hardest
to see, therefore, the easiest category to ignore. According
to feng shui principals, things not dealt with in your home
reflect issues not dealt with in your life. These items are
a constant drain on your psyche, always lurking in the back
of your mind. Your conscious mind will suppress them for you
but uses a lot of energy to do so. Your energy and vitality
will soar if you will complete all of your unfinished business.
Things
that you do not use or love are common elements in a cluttered
home. The question to ask yourself as you begin to clear each
object is: Why do I hold onto this item—guilt or a memory?
You will not lose a memory simply because the related item
is gone. As far as guilt goes… if you knew the extent
of feng shui damage that these items have on your life, you
would be much more willing to let them go. Feeling guilty
for releasing certain items says something about your own
personal self-talk, and you may want to explore why you feel
obligated to remain living with things that no longer serve
you.
Untidiness
and disorganization result from a lack of attention or carelessness.
Is your environment not worth keeping orderly and clean? Think
of it this way, your environment is an extension of your own
personal energy. Is your physical appearance also disheveled
or not put together? This is a case I see frequently. We clean
out the living environment and suddenly, the outward appearance
of the person changes. Shortly after this comes elevated self-confidence
and mastery.
Too many items in a small space is a common phenomenon, especially
for those of us in Southern California. Most of us live in
smaller spaces than we grew up in. This can be a really great
thing if we have learned to streamline and simplify our lives.
Or creating clutter can be a hazard if we are not able to
release enough items to fit into our new space with room to
spare. I’m in strong agreement with the authors of Chic
Simple, that the quality of life comes not in accumulating
things but in paring down to the essentials. This is why I
have named this column and my company AddSpace To Your Life!
Open space is necessary for good metal health.
Tell
your husband that having empty space and order in your environment
allow energy to flow and new beginnings to occur. I’m
sure that whoever you are, you will most probably welcome
new happenings in your life. This, along with new thought
patterns and experiences in your home, will be your due reward
for clearing clutter and creating better feng shui in your
environment.
Thanks for writing and don’t hesitate to write with
any other specific questions.